love-hate

in this world

not everyone likes to see you happy

even if they said they wished all the happiness in the world for you, sometimes they dont really mean it

words are just that.. words

we've been accustomed or programmed to say such things

good words for good things.

like good luck dear!

all the best!

may your dreams come true , i'll miss you yada yada yada

do you have to really mean it?

of course not

those are just nice words to write on a birthday card, facebook statuses and so on

people expect to see those words on certain occasions

hence, others just mechanically wrote down those things without really thinking about it.

sometimes. not all the time.

bad words on the other hand,

boy, do people mean it when they say such bad things.

people wont naturally say they hate something if they didnt really hate that thing do they?

bad words usually come straight from the heart.instantly.

people become very passionate when they're on a heated debate, or when they are really pissed off

ahh.. what's my point really??

the thing is, some people just can't stand seeing you happy

it's just their nature i guess

oh well, that's life

sticks and stones may break my bones,

but words will never hurt me ?

sorry honey,

they do.

p/s-my 22nd birthday was awesome, for the most part, that is.